Jo Tocher – Cherish Your Third Act

Helping women who have spent years looking after everyone else reconnect with themselves, discover what they want, and live well, not just longer.

You’ve spend years being there for everyone else.  Your partner. Your children. Your career. Your Parents. Your family.

Are you a 60+ woman feeling like something is missing, not in alignment and asking “is this all there is?”

You’ve supported, organised, encouraged, cooked, cared, remembered and kept everything moving.   And perhaps lately a quiet question has started to surface:

What about me?

You love the people in your life.  But you also know you’re not ready to spend the next chapter simply continuing to organise your life around everybody else’s needs.    There’s still a spark in you.  A sense that there’s more.  You might not know what that more looks like yet.  That’s ok.  Sometimes that’s exactly where the next chapter beings.

You’re not done yet. Maybe life looks perfectly fine from the outside.  The children are grown – although some may still be living at home.  Your partner maybe looking towards retirement and imagining holidays, golf, cruises and finally having time to do all the things he wants to do. You maybe juggling work or your own business while also worrying about ageing parents.  Perhaps grandchildren have entered the picture too.  And somehow, you’re still the one everybody expects to keep things running.  But something has changed. You have.  You’re becoming increasingly aware of your time, your health and how you want the years ahead to feel.  You don’t want to simply live longer.  You want to live more fully.

  • with more energy
  • with good health
  • with purpose
  • with peace
  • with adventure

Does this sound like you?

  • You’ve spent years giving to, your family, your career, your partner, your children, your parents, your business, everyone else

  • You numb yourself with wine, food and online shopping – though you know they’re not helping

  • Your clothes don’t fit anymore and your confidence is low, but you can’t face joining a slimming club

  • You’re wondering why you always feel tired. Why you feel guilty for wanting time for yourself.

  • You find yourself wondering if this is how you want the next twenty or thirty years to feel

If you’re asking those questions, you’re in the right place. What do you need right now?  There isn’t one way to begin.  You might need to stop and breathe. You might need someone to you work out what comes next.  You might crave connection with other women.  Or perhaps you simply need a few days away from everybody else’s demands so you can hear yourself think.  Wherever you are, we’ll start there.  TRANSFORMATIONAL COACHING – When you’re ready to ask, “What do I want now?”  One to one support to help you explore what’s changing, reconnect with what matters to you and consciously create your next chapter.  RETREATSStep away from everyday life and make space for yourself. CHERISH CIRCLE: An hour that’s just for you in a supportive community of women. TRANSFORM READING: We start with a reading about what to transform.

If this IS you – Welcome to your Third Act.

Hi, I’m Jo.

And I understand. I’m spent much of my life giving too.   I know how easy it is to become the woman who holds everything together – and how difficult it can be to suddenly ask:  What do I want?  For 30 years I’ve worked with women through change, loss, healing and transformation.  Today my work brings all of that experience together with a new purpose.  Helping women 60+ cherish themselves and consciously create a Third Act that feels like their own.  I’m not here to tell you what your next chapter will look like.  I’m here to give you the space to pause, hear yourself again and discover it for yourself.  And then when you’re ready, I’ll help you find the confidence to begin living it.

Ready to Get Started on your Third Act?

What do you need right now? Get in touch and let’s find out how I can help.

What my clients say…

‘Working with Jo has been life changing. Jo has a real gift  – her knack of getting to the heart of the issue in a holistic and gentle manner has helped me to heal and grow. I recommend her highly.’

Lisa, London

“With Jo’s support, I was able to relax, be more compassionate towards myself, give myself some time out and make decisions about further treatment. I felt very contained by Jo, and she also made me accountable, which I really appreciate.

I am so grateful to Jo for her support.”

Chrissy

“Jo is a wonderful, nurturing and supportive intuitive coach, who genuinely cares about her clients.”

Louise

“Jo has been an absolute lifeline whilst I’ve been going through a couple of really challenging issues. Her approach is flexible and dynamic as she has a lot of tools and modalities to draw from and can be led by what the client needs in that specific moment.”

Leila