Blame can be felt after a loss when feelings of sadness, hurt, and probably anger occur, and we look to someone to be accountable. This can be levelled at your partner, the medical sector or ourselves. Self-blame is common after miscarriage. Please know that there is very little you could have done to stop your [...]
Are you holding onto suppressed anger? After a Miscarriage and Pregnancy Loss it is common to feel Angry. We might be angry with the world, angry with the hospital, doctors and medical staff around how we were treated. We could be angry with our friends, the ones who didn’t show up for us, the [...]
Looking Back and Looking forward I was recently asked to speak at a workshop about looking back and looking forward. I chose the phrase - Full Circle to describe the year so far. Pregnancy Loss To me, Full Circle meant a closing of the circle, for instance I was coming back to myself and [...]
95% Struggled Alone ... Did you struggle alone after a miscarriage or babyloss? Recently I conducted a survey and of the 150 women who participated only 5% had sought out professional help after babyloss or having a miscarriage - which means 95% had no therapy, counselling or professional help. This tells me several [...]
