Your miscarriage and fertility journey
Not many people truly understand how this feels….but I do
It is lonely, it is scary, it’s isolating and it’s devastating
There’s nothing like losing a much wanted and yearned for baby in pregnancy or in birth. It happened to me, so I can relate. I lost my baby boy (John) at 23.5 weeks. In the eyes of the law, he doesn’t exist but of course he very much exists for me and my family.
I have written a book “Life after miscarriage – Your guide to healing from Pregnancy Loss” to help women through this devastating time and many women have let me know that it’s been of great comfort.
Some of the emotions you’ll be feeling are;
- guilt- could I have caused this? What did I do wrong?
- fear – feeling terrified to move ahead – what if it happens again?
- blame – the medical profession, yourself, your partner, anyone…
- jealousy (your friend may well be pregnant and that’s difficult to bear. You’re happy for them, but still it hurts… (a lot!)
These are just some emotions that come up, and let me assure you they are all normal feelings and reactions.
“Jo has been an absolute lifeline whilst I went through a couple of recurrent miscarriages and then on my Fertility journey. Her approach is flexible and dynamic as she has a lot of tools and modalities to draw from and can be led by what the client needs in that specific moment. We had a wonderful outcome of triplets, naturally conceived!” Leila Green
Fertility
Often after losing a baby, we either want to replace it immediately and get pregnant quickly once again or we are too terrified to try again incase the same thing happens.
This is where I come in – I support you through your entire pregnancy, through each of the scans, and every appointment, through the milestones, through the weeks and months until birth.
“I came to Jo feeling heartbroken from my experience of miscarriage, and after agreeing to multiple sessions with Jo, the transformation I experienced within a relatively short period of time was amazing – I really didn’t know how I’d get through this painful period in my life and Jo’s kindness, experience and compassion truly contributed to my healing. Not only did our sessions help me to reframe this traumatic experience and negative thinking patterns, empowering me to move forward and try again for a baby, the tools Jo shared also helped my husband and I to work through this emotionally challenging time with a greater sense of perspective, insight and support. I’m now the proud mother of a beautiful baby girl!” Louise.
I have supported many women through their ongoing journey until they have produced their baby (or babies).
“I felt I couldn’t talk to anybody else about my loss, as nobody I knew had been through the same thing. Jo has and she totally got where I was coming from. I couldn’t have got through this without Jo’s support!” I am now delighted to announce the arrival of my little girl! Lisa N.
I work holistically and with energy in helping you release those feelings of fear, blame, jealousy, and most of all guilt. And once they are released and then replaced by much more positive feelings of ease, joy and flow, you will feel lighter, more positive and happier and confident in your journey.
You don’t have to struggle on alone feeling fearful and depressed and sad. There is another way of being, and when you get to the stage when you feel ready to make those changes, this is a great time to contact me to let me know you’re ready to move forward!
Book a call, so we can chat and see if we are the right fit for each other. Please don’t struggle on alone.